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From Birth to Adolescence: A 46 Year Journey Through Childhood and What It Has Taught Me

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As I sit here reflecting on my 46 years in paediatrics, I am overwhelmed by the memories, the milestones, and the countless lives I’ve had the privilege to touch. Being a pediatrician is more than just a profession; it’s a journey filled with stories of hope, resilience, and the unending faith that every child brings into our lives. Over the decades, I’ve learned a few lessons—lessons that are etched deep in my heart, shaped by the children and families I’ve cared for. 

The Joy of New Beginnings 

My journey began in the late '70s, fresh out of medical college. I remember my first few patients—tiny, fragile newborns just beginning their journey. One such baby was Anjali, born prematurely. Her mother was worried, scared about her tiny weight and fragile health. I still remember the moment I held her for the first time—her tiny fingers gripping mine, a reminder of how precious life is. Seeing Anjali grow stronger day by day, finally going home, reinforced a simple truth: every child’s life is a cherished gift, deserving of our utmost care and love. 

Milestones and Miracles 

Throughout the years, I’ve witnessed the remarkable milestones children achieve—the first steps, first words, and the day they finally write their own names. I remember a boy named Rohit, who struggled with speech delays. Today, he’s a confident teenager preparing for college. The joy of witnessing such transformations has been the greatest reward. It has taught me patience and the importance of early intervention. Small steps, with the right support, can transform lives. 

Challenges and Unforeseen Turns 

Not every story is straight-forward. I’ve faced heartbreaking moments, like when I lost a child to a rare complication. That loss stayed with me and reminded me that medicine is not just science; it’s also compassion. Challenges teach us resilience. I’ve learned that sometimes, the best thing we can do is listen—to a parent’s worries, a child’s fears, or silent tears. Every challenge has deepened my understanding that mental and emotional well-being are as vital as physical health. 

The Adolescence of Our Children 

As they grow, children become teenagers—curious, energetic, sometimes rebellious, but always resilient. I remember Vikram, a bright boy struggling with asthma, who was worried he’d miss out on playing cricket. Through careful management and counseling, I saw him score his first century. Adolescence is a complex period for both parents and children. It’s during these years that trust, understanding, and guidance become crucial. I’ve learned that nurturing independence with responsibility helps children transition to confident adults. 

Unforgettable Moments of Faith and Trust 

Over the decades, I’ve built relationships that go beyond medicine. I’ve had the privilege of guiding parents through their child’s health journey, sharing in their joys and fears. A mother once told me, “You’re like a family member,” and that touched my heart deeply. These moments reaffirm that being a pediatrician is about more than treating illnesses—it's about becoming a part of the family’s story. 

A Journey of Lifelong Learning 

Throughout my 46 years, I’ve seen changes—new vaccines, advanced diagnostic tools, evolving treatment protocols. But the core remains the same: compassion, patience, and the understanding that every child is a universe of limitless potential. 

Every moment spent caring for children has been a lesson in humility and hope. From birth to adolescence, each stage of childhood is a chapter filled with its own lessons, joys, and challenges. I am grateful to have been part of these journeys and look forward to many more years of learning and growing alongside my young patients. For me, the greatest reward is knowing that I’ve helped shape a healthier, happier future—one child at a time. 

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